Thursday, November 16, 2006

Secrets, Secrets...

Secrets, secrets are no fun. Secrets, secrets, hurt someone.

So, Dhonielle and I are throwing a Housewarming Party. Check your emails and respond, please (oh... and if you're not in the area, you weren't invited). Anyway, as we were discussing the guest list, it became necessary for me to share with Dhonielle the reason why someone I didn't want someone invited. I didn't want her to think that I just nixed him for a petty reason. So it all came out. I had to make her see that it was much bigger than whatever she thought the reason was and that with the enormity of it, it leaked into other areas of our social lives and other relationships.

So, secrets that I was supposed to keep, all came to a head. I feel bad that I had to reveal this person's secrets, but she was the one that put me in the predicament in the first place, and her secrets have effected me.

I know... I make no sense. And I'm being so vague. Oh, the sex, lies and scandal in my life. *sigh* We just have to nip the complexity in the bud. How do we start all over? Sheesh...

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